Ex wife, will it ever get better....

DonMelchor · Sep 14, 2006

I don't want to be in a relationship with her, but she is a fucking pain in the ass, I just want everything to be okay for our Childs.

When everything is okay, she lets me see my kids, but if for a reason I can't watch the kids on a Friday night(because of work)and she has a party or whatever, she threatens me that I will never see them again.:smoking:

Does anyone here has a healthy relationship with the EX, or lets hear stories about them....

Boxslayer · Sep 14, 2006

snuff that bitch

kingbill · Sep 14, 2006

I'm Workin on it, It's tough, a bit of pain everyday, some days you feel good other days you feel crazy.

A girlfriend of mine put into perspective for me today.
She asked me "Do you miss being with her?" or "Do you miss being with someone?"

That answer made me realize what was right.

I am lucky because no matter what we both have our daughters best interests in mind, no matter how much we hate or love each other that week, our daughter comes first. If you both have the interest of your child in mind you'll be OK. It may mean swallowing your pride more than you would like but you child comes first.

Hangin there I know your pain. No matter one be the bigger man, for the child.

fivedoorsdown · Sep 14, 2006

bring her out fishing . grind her up and use her for blues or shark bait

queposkid · Sep 14, 2006

My man..The whole experience is like taking a shower that you just never get clean from..You will keep scrubbing but the dirt remains..make the best of a shitty situation..Your life mirrors others, its just how you deal with the issues..remember at the end of the day, kids are not stupid..They see difunction, and you will always have your kids by being patient and letting the water settle..

deucedeuce · Sep 14, 2006

good analogy

DonMelchor · Sep 15, 2006

Take this for instance I'm remarried, so she wont let me have them over at my new place, so I can't have them. But when she has a party or something she's up for it, only if I have them somewhere else. That's fuckup.
Anyway, the only option I got is to keep her "happy".... Sincerely if you've got kids never, never remarry, they will bust your balls like there's no tomorrow...

kid44 · Sep 15, 2006

You have a Cinderella life compared to me. Cant go into it but it is hourly and I am divorced. Lost 350k and have the kids, 2 boys, more than half the time. Keeping her happy will only last so long. You can always go back to court. The kids need their dad. Fight for whatever you can because now you child might think you do not want to be with them. Courts are against us.

Vicious circle. It seems like you are a convience for her. Do not let that happen.

I have 4 hours of different practices tonight with mine. Tomorrow 6 hours of football games, swim practice, and running around.

Someone always has it worse.

Kid44

Fighting_Irishman · Sep 15, 2006

What you should do is tell her your taking them to Mcd's and take them over to the house for the day, but make sure the kids know they shouldn't say anything. I have a buddy who does it all the time, but his kids are old enough to know not to tell or it will create problems because he is re-married as well and they really enjoy being with their father.....

FI